{"id":151,"date":"2025-04-25T19:51:24","date_gmt":"2025-04-25T19:51:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/copingnpservices.com\/blogs\/?p=151"},"modified":"2025-04-29T16:59:39","modified_gmt":"2025-04-29T16:59:39","slug":"sharing-hope-and-tips-for-living-with-chronic-medical-and-mental-health-challenges","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/copingnpservices.com\/blogs\/sharing-hope-and-tips-for-living-with-chronic-medical-and-mental-health-challenges\/","title":{"rendered":"Sharing Hope and Tips for Living with Chronic Medical and Mental Health Challenges"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In life, we often find ourselves overwhelmed by challenges\u2014some build up slowly, while others hit us without warning. So the question is: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">what do we do in those moments?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This week, following Resurrection Sunday, God placed it on my heart to share a testimony of His goodness. I want to speak from the heart and offer encouragement for those walking through tough medical and mental health journeys.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a nurse, patient, and provider, I always begin by asking God for guidance. I believe He has placed me in each of these roles so I can gain knowledge, understanding, experience, and wisdom to help others heal and recover. How can I truly support someone if I\u2019ve never walked a path of pain or adversity myself?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve come to believe that my personal trials\u2014my pain, disappointments, and setbacks\u2014have shaped and humbled me into a better mother, woman, nurse, and provider. I\u2019m still working on being a better patient (yes, I get cranky when I\u2019m sick!). I\u2019ve had moments of hopelessness, where I didn\u2019t feel in control of my health. But I remind myself that God is holding my hand. He is ultimately in control of my healing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hebrews 11:1 says, \u201cNow faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen.\u201d As humans, we long for evidence, but as believers, we must first have faith. Sometimes, that\u2019s all it takes\u2014a mustard seed of faith\u2014and the strength that comes from God, not our own willpower.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">My Journey and Testimony<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I live with chronic medical issues: diabetes, respiratory problems, musculoskeletal conditions, and more. I\u2019ve faced mental health challenges, too. I\u2019ve experienced grief\u2014losing my maternal grandparents in 2021 and paternal grandmother in 2008. I\u2019ve been through divorce, relationship pain, single parenting, academic struggles, financial hardship and juggling many other challenges. I\u2019ve endured discrimination and deeply hurtful comments.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve had near-death experiences\u2014blood clots in my lungs and legs, having been struck by my car as a pedestrian, collapsed lungs from COVID-19, pneumonia with hypoxia, and long-haul COVID symptoms. I\u2019ve battled depression and anxiety. So yes, I understand what it\u2019s like to hurt.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is my testimony. I want to reach those who are hurting and say: <\/span><b>don\u2019t give up.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> One of my favorite verses is Jeremiah 29:11 \u2014 <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cFor I know the plans I have for you,\u201d declares the Lord, \u201cplans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When life gets heavy, you may have to crawl, stand, roll, or hop your way forward\u2014but do it. Keep the faith. Your hope, faith, and prayers are your armor.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Finding Support and Taking Action<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chronic medical and mental health conditions are those that last more than a year. The key to managing them is finding a provider you trust and partner with them. Make sure your provider is also culturally competent too. Look at their reviews, ask for referrals, and talk to trusted family or friends.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make sure your provider supports open communication and listens to your concerns. It\u2019s important to be accurately diagnosed too because it makes a difference in the treatment plan and options. This kind of partnership makes a big difference.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Lifestyle habits also matter.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Exercise and walking\u2014once it\u2019s safe\u2014helps improve mood, sleep, circulation, breathing, pain control, blood pressure, cholesterol, blood sugar and more. Eat home-cooked meals, limit fast food, decrease high sodium foods, and drink adequate amounts of water daily to restore balance in your body versus unhealthy beverages.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes, medication is necessary. While not everyone likes taking it, it\u2019s important to understand the pros and cons. Talk with your provider about the best treatment plan for you. You need to get on the right medication and dosage regiment too in making a difference in your quality of life. You have to explore the treatment options of the disease and weigh the benefits and risk again of medication treatment that is in your best interest.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And please, consider joining a support group. You don\u2019t have to go through this alone. Remember to adhere to your follow up appointments to better control the symptoms and maintain stability of the illness by also meeting acceptance of the journey which is never an easy step. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><b>Practical Tips for Living with Chronic Medical and Mental Health Challenges<\/b><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Break stigma with positive affirmations<\/li>\n<li>Let go of shame\u2014love yourself and practice self-care<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t isolate\u2014find support, even if it&#8217;s just one trusted person<\/li>\n<li>Please call 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline if needed because it\u2019s 24 hours<\/li>\n<li>Please call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room too if suicidal or homicidal because the life you save may be your own or\/and another<\/li>\n<li>Please call 911 as well if you are having a medical emergency because immediate intervention can be crucial to save your life<\/li>\n<li>Know your worth and speak life into your spirit<\/li>\n<li>Nourish your mind with healthy food for clear thinking<\/li>\n<li>Partner with a trusted medical and\/or mental health providers<\/li>\n<li>Rest well and follow good sleep hygiene<\/li>\n<li>Manage your time and be okay with saying \u201cno\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Avoid drugs and alcohol\u2014they make things harder<\/li>\n<li>Connect with a Bible-based church or spiritual group<\/li>\n<li>Pray continuously and build spiritual support<\/li>\n<li>Embrace your faith, values, and culture<\/li>\n<li>Pursue a career that aligns with your purpose<\/li>\n<li>Choose a partner who reflects your values and brings peace<\/li>\n<li>Find an exercise routine that suits your ability and health<\/li>\n<li>Join a wellness group for motivation and connection<\/li>\n<li>Listen to uplifting music that feeds your soul<\/li>\n<li>Do fun activities and hobbies that bring you joy<\/li>\n<li>Distance yourself from negativity<\/li>\n<li>Build healthy boundaries and expectations<\/li>\n<li>Focus on what you can control<\/li>\n<li>Therapy helps\u2014talking is healing<\/li>\n<li>Set small, realistic goals and reward yourself<\/li>\n<li>Be mindful of your triggers<\/li>\n<li>Write down things you\u2019re grateful for<\/li>\n<li>Stay engaged, encouraged, and empowered<\/li>\n<li>Remember\u2014God loves you, so do I and you should love yourself too<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><b>Helpful Resources<\/b><\/h3>\n<ol>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/copingnpservices.com\/chronic-health\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Coping Nurse Practitioner Services \u2013 Chronic Health<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/copingnpservices.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Coping Nurse Practitioner Services &#8211; Resources<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/healthy-lifestyle\/fitness\/in-depth\/exercise-and-chronic-disease\/art-20046049\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mayo Clinic \u2013 Exercise and Chronic Disease<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>______________________________________________________<\/p>\n<p><b>Godspeed, much love, and blessings,<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b> <b>Dr. Judy E. 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